Hi friends,
I never thought that one day I would need to write a post on “Friendship” but due to some circumstances which happened recently I decided to post a special article about Friendship. Let’s start with a definition of friendship from wikipedia:
Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more beings. This article focuses on the notion specific to interpersonal relationships. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis.
I know that this definition is a bit too technical but I like it as it is almost a complete one. Let’ analyse this! Some of the important words we need to focuss on are co-operative, supportive, mutual knowledge, esteem, affection, rendering service, times of need and crisis.
What do I expect from my close friends?
I have many friends but from that hundreds of friends cohort, I want to dedicate this part to my best and really close friends. This is what I expect from you guys and gurls:
- Co-operation
- Support
- Mutual knowledge (sharing and knowing each other)
- Esteem
- Affection
- Rendering Service
- Being here in times of need and crisis
Why do I have many friends and want to have more?
Recently a friend of mine told me, it’s wrong to have so many friends. I don’t know why he said so, but for me it’s not the case. Having many friends for me is something really great. I get to meet many different types of people of different character, of different way of thinking. This improves my personality and helps me to deal and adapt with different type of people in work, at university or even in church. Every time there would be a concert or a celebration where I would be given great responsibility, I would need to lead and supervise many people and this is one of the place where having many friends helps me.
Why should you have many CLOSE AND BEST friends?
The bible says
Ecclésiaste 4:12 French: Louis Segond (1910)
Et si quelqu’un est plus fort qu’un seul, les deux peuvent lui résister; et la corde à trois fils ne se rompt pas facilement.
For those who didn’t understand what I meant, here it is. If a rope of 3 strings is not easily broken, think of a rope of 10 strings or even more. Would it ever break? This same apply to friendship for me. Its true that God is our only true support, but when he himself encourages friendship, so we need to make lots of friends. But be sure to befriend the right persons, think well before you befriend someone, else it might cost you a lot.
I hope that this article would help my friends understand what i do expect from them and what they can expect from me.
Cheers……
Kooshal





